Focus On What You Can Control

Although the events that unfold in our lives are often out of our control, there are absolutely things you can control. Among other things, you can take charge of your thoughts, your reactions, your attitude, your efforts, and your actions. 

But no matter how much force we exert and no matter how fervently we wish for it to be otherwise, life can get a bit complicated.

The trick is to find the sweet spot in balancing the things that are within your ability to control and learning how to adapt to those that are not! 

The universe is always on your side and constantly sending you blessings. You have the ability to work hard, make choices that will serve you well, and consider what you can do to improve your future.

But no matter how much forethought you put into thinking ahead, there will be unforeseen events that are out of your control. At this point, we are urged to release the tight grip we have on our lives and allow events to unfold in the way that they have been meant to. 

Oftentimes, those events will turn out the way you have been hoping and sometimes, they will not. We live in a world that allows us to influence what occurs, but we don’t always get the final say.

What you can control begins with you. Letting go of those things that are not within your power leads to increased resilience and allows you to focus on the areas that you can change. Wasting energy on the things you cannot change is not an efficient use of your precious time!

Building the life you desire means taking accountability for your actions and finding tools to embrace the aspects that are less than desirable. Developing coping mechanisms to handle the challenging events that may happen allows you to shift from a reactionary stance to one of thoughtful response. 

And don’t forget, your mindset is key when it comes embracing the changes that happen throughout your life! Make it a priority to cultivate a mindset that serves you well.

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